What Two Dolls Can Teach You About Very, Very Safe Sex

In my work as an ETS instructor (‘Extreme Tantric Sex’) I work with non-gender specific dolls a lot to demonstrate the positions, the attitude, certain interactions, etc. that are part of the practice. I believe we must ‘feel’ our greatness as lovers before we can ever hope to be one. So that’s why the dolls are so perfect – they have no ego, nothing to prove, they can be manipulated and controlled easily and fluidly. (Note: real people are a lot harder to handle.)

I had the ETS dolls constructed to be non-gender specific so no traditional role playing of any kind can go on. And basically what we do in this work is just to relax into our role, first of all, as Excellent Lover. No pressure! Just ‘feel’ it.

In ETS, first I have people clear their pockets of all concealed weapons so they can establish trust with the dolls, and even put all their credit cards, cash, wallets, everything in a big fishbowl by the door. (It’s up to participants to remember to retrieve them before they leave. ?) Then once everyone is stripped ‘naked’, so to speak, I give them each a doll of their own to work with.

It’s amazing! In just a few moments people are dramatically transformed! The dolls free up their ability to play and be young again. They forget about ’sex’ per se and start practicing love, right there in the room! Each person partners off with their dolls and soon forgets to even listen to me as I try to instruct them … oh, no! They are in their own world, making love to a tiny, controllable object made of cotton and polyester filling. It’s all I can do to get these folks to keep their clothes on! Participants leave this work as masterful lovers and I am touched to the core.

I think the magic here is that each participant’s ‘love partner’ never speaks a word and complies willingly without question. Can you imagine a real partner doing that for more than, say, fifteen seconds? Not on your life!

If you’d like to know more about my Extreme Tantric Sex instruction, do be in touch via my website at www.serenityhawkfire.com

Thank you!